James Finn
Feb 19, 2025

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Your comment is entirely beside the point. Lesbians are not lesbians because they hate men or however they feel about the male gaze. That's not how any of this works. Lesbians are lesbians because they're sexually attracted to women, just like I'm a gay man because I'm only attracted to other men.

I didn't decide to only be attracted to other men, it's how I was born. Natalie didn't decide to only be attracted to other women because of how anyone feels about men or the male gaze. Women existing for the male gays actually is a problem, but it's not a cause of homosexuality.

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James Finn
James Finn

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James Finn is an LGBTQ columnist, a former Air Force intelligence analyst, an alumnus of Act Up NY, and an agented but unpublished novelist.

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