James Finn
1 min readMar 26, 2021

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You’ll get no argument from me!

You know, we gay men are diverse. Some of us are more into a perfectly chiseled chest, a nice round butt, or exceptionally muscled thighs.

Me? I’ve always been a dick man. They come in assorted shapes and sizes, and I think most of them are gorgeous. From cut, short, slightly curved and steel hard, to uncircumcised, long and ruler straight — they’re works of art.

That’s what makes the whole top and bottom paradigm a bit difficult for me. Most of my sexual partners would describe me as a top, and I’m perfectly happy performing that role.

As long as I also get to play with a dick. One just doesn’t go without the other.

I’ve heard it said that gay male artists are more likely to feature penises in their art than straight artist are to feature vaginas. I don’t know if that’s true and I don’t know what the significance would be if it were.

But I do know that I enjoyed your article and your candid honesty. So I figured I’d dish some back.

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James Finn
James Finn

Written by James Finn

James Finn is an LGBTQ columnist, a former Air Force intelligence analyst, an alumnus of Act Up NY, and an agented but unpublished novelist.

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