You know, sometimes gay men have been a little astonished when I assert that not all men who have occasionally had sex with other men are gay or bisexual.

Sometimes it’s just getting off or trying something to see what it’s like.

I posted a story that went a little viral once about this dude in the military I had a sexual affair with and about how it kind of broke my heart because he was straight.

A bunch of guys responded like, “Oh please, Blanche, dude was gay. He had sex with you!”

My response to that is, have you ever tried having sex with a woman? I have. Does that mean you’re straight? Didn’t think so! Lol