Works a bit the same way in the gay world. The stereotype is that gay men are all about big dicks. You’d especially think that if you watch a lot of porn.
But I’ve known gay guys who are abnormally endowed but don’t find themselves particularly blessed.
In fact, my reaction might have been a bit off putting the first time I saw a friend of mine unveil after a hot make out session. I already knew he was huge just from the bulge in his fashionable boxer briefs.
When he whipped them down, I said, “Honey, you gotta be kidding me. All I can say is you better be a bottom.”
In retrospect, I could have been a lot more sensitive. I figured he was proud of his dick. I mean it was certainly impressive.
But apparently my reaction was one that he was not unaccustomed to, and it made him anxious. I ended up apologizing and showing him as best I could that everything was fine.
Just goes to show how life and porn are pretty different sometimes!