Well, hello! From one undesirable old fart to another. 🤣 (And obviously I don’t really mean that about you!)

Pushing 60, I have never felt less sexually desirable and less ambitious to want to do something about it. I’m perfectly okay to not be very sexual right now.

Part of me pushes back, saying I’m reacting to endemic ageism and toxic body beliefs among gay men, but another big part of me is just like, “This is where you are at right now and it’s fine. Nothing says you have to want what you don’t want.”

I do have something of a presence on social media, and my photos are pretty much accurate. I get the occasional poke of interest from a young gay guy with a daddy fetish.

For some reason, I can’t stir myself to be interested enough to play the game.

But you know what? I think I’m okay where I’m at.