We gay men are the WORST! We debate “manscaping” heatedly and vociferously, with some camps vocal about the virtues of full forestation and others of smooth, waxy pudenda. Those who compromise with moderate grooming just to keep jungles in bare control get respect from neither side.

But you’re right of course. To shave or not to shave should be personal.

Writer. Runner. Marine. Airman. Former LGBTQ and HIV activist. Former ActUpNY and Queer Nation. Polyglot. Middle-aged, uppity faggot. jamesfinnwrites@gmail.com

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