Was it really necessary to write this article with a gay slur right at the top? What is it that you feel about the subject that necessitates putting “sucking dick" as an insult right at the very top?

There is absolutely nothing wrong with oral sex, and I can tell you we gay men are sick and tired of people leveraging it against us as a joke and and insult.

“Sucking dick" happens to be what most gay men do in bed most of the time according to most studies.

You completely turned me off by using that kind of language, and now I’m struggling to even want to even read the rest of the article.

I’m sorry and disappointed that Cultured let your homophobic insult slide. We need to be better than this.