Very interesting, right? This idea that bisexual must also mean polyamorous is so crazy. I have a friend I should write about sometime. She’s a woman of roughly my age and an extraordinary mother. She’s like an Ur-mother, she just personifies motherhood. She actually helps me with the Aunty Jimothy columns sometimes, and her advice often finds its way into my columns even when she isn’t helping.

She got together with her now-husband when they were both 16. She’s never had sex with anyone in her entire life other than him. She says she’s never wanted to.

Shes also bisexual.

Go figure, huh?

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Writer. Runner. Marine. Airman. Former LGBTQ and HIV activist. Former ActUpNY and Queer Nation. Polyglot. Middle-aged, uppity faggot. jamesfinnwrites@gmail.com

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