Very important points!
I published a piece this morning that compared and contrasted hypersexual straight events like Mardi Gras to Pride parades — though that was just one small part of the piece.
A few months ago I wrote about homophobia directed at gay men by other gay men, though not directly with respect to kink or fetish culture. Our own internalized homophobia (and sex shaming) often gets directed outward. And nothing positive comes of it!