This debate goes on among gay men too, though the dynamics are different. Many a “straight” guy has felt differently about hooking up with another guy after a few beers.

I’m not one to dismiss it, though I don’t like being anybody’s dirty secret, and of course the whole relationship potential is off the table.

Not gonna date a “straight” guy, but heck if he wants to fool around, who am I to say no?

Writer. Runner. Marine. Airman. Former LGBTQ and HIV activist. Former ActUpNY and Queer Nation. Polyglot. Middle-aged, uppity faggot.

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