The RIGHT thing to say in situations like this is that the CHURCH IS WRONG. The RIGHT thing to say in situation like this is that LGBTQ people are fully moral and fully equal to straight and cis people.

The RIGHT thing to say in situations like that this is that you condemn the Catholic Church for calling LGBTQ people instrinsically disordered.

The RIGHT thing to say in situations like this is that you condemn the Catholic Church for saying LGBTQ people commit acts of grave depravity.

If you can’t say those things, then we all know you’re an evil piece of shit with whom communication is a revolting exercise.