That is a distinction without a point. I understand they are saying that gay people who don’t have sex are fine, and I am calling them absurdly ignorant from bringing up any notion of disorder.
The “inclination” is not intrinsically disordered. They are dead wrong about that, and they are pushing hate speech when they say it. They need to pull their asses out of the 15th century and start acting like decent, educated, rational human beings.
And I’m not going to indulge their hair splitting jackassery. I’m going to call them what they are. Ignorant hate mongers.