James Finn
1 min readOct 7, 2020

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Spot on!

We Americans and Brits really do have weird ideas about the appropriateness of touch.

When I wrote that Turkish barber story, I got quite a few comments on social media from non-Americans really didn’t understand what I was trying to say.

I think they were puzzled because in their cultures, touch is more normal and accepted. I wrote the story from the point of view of a person who experiences touch as something vanishingly rare.

And it’s a shame it has to be that way.

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James Finn

James Finn is an LGBTQ columnist, a former Air Force intelligence analyst, an alumnus of Act Up NY, and an agented but unpublished novelist.