She popularized the absurd, evidence-free myth that trans women are a threat to cis women. She makes life much harder for trans women by spreading that lie. She makes life harder for trans men by spreading the lie that trans men somehow hard lesbians.
It's all just absurd. As is your implication that people hating on trans folks - which is pervasively over-the-top and venomous - is ordinary, like what "everyone" experiences. It's not. You don't have the foggiest idea what you're talking about.
But then, you can't use wealth and power to spread your toxic bullshit. She can and does. She needs to shut her foul mouth.