Parenting a child who has challenges is so hard. You want to protect them from everything. But you must protect them from your protection. And that’s so hard to accept.

The boy I raised did not have autism, but he did have serious mental health challenges, and I struggled with his very real need for independence.

It all worked out fine in the end, but there are no easy answers.

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Writer. Runner. Marine. Airman. Former LGBTQ and HIV activist. Former ActUpNY and Queer Nation. Polyglot. Middle-aged, uppity faggot. jamesfinnwrites@gmail.com

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