What you like in the bedroom, what gets your engine revving, is highly individual and in many instances, related to your own personal experiences, particularly from childhood. One of my first Medium friends confessed to me that he likes to watch his wife have sex with anothe…
Elle Beau ❇︎
One particular kink that has never appealed to me in the least is water sports. I’ve had some partners who were interested in it, but I could just never make it part of our fun, because personally it ick-ed me out, in either a giving or a receiving sense.
But I was watching some very well made professional porn the other day that included a watersports scene, and instead of fast forwarding by it like I might be inclined, I let it play. And I found that I actually found it interesting.
I’m not saying I will ever try it for real, but I do observe that my previous strong aversion no longer exists.
It’s interesting how likes and dislikes change.
Similarly, I once had an older lover who was into the daddy/boy fetish. I wasn’t at all, but it didn’t turn me off so I let him do his role play thing, and after a while I started understanding what people saw in it and even enjoyed it a little bit. Though I’ve never felt inclined to seek out a partner for that reason.
I guess just keeping an open mind is important.