One can't help but wonder if O'Neill knows anything about gay "preference" culture at all. Bears, otters, cubs, daddies, and twinks are just some of the preference categories we gay men talk about and sometimes abide by pretty strictly. If nobody's managed to talk us out of those preferences (as if anyone could) then I wonder how he supposes people could talk us out of genital preferences?

Does he imagine, I wonder, that a secret cabal will start pulling strings at Grindr and Scruff, that suddenly we'll find ourselves being matched with people we don't find attractive, and then the dating police will ring our doorbells to make sure we keep our assigned assignation? I wonder if the dating police are members of the secret cabals or if their social status is a bit lower as befits the hired help. Silly question I guess, but then ... well, answering silliness with silliness seems appropriate.