Not only wouldn’t that kill a guy, it should be really fun and pleasurable for him to do that.

When I’m in love or just infatuated with someone, I adore doing little things to delight my partner. I like to make a date effortless for my partner, because giving them joy gives me joy.

I think that’s a good, normal, ordinary way to feel. I’m so sorry more of your boyfriends have not been like that. You deserve it!