My second partner suffered from depression and anxiety, quite badly suffered sometimes. Yes, he it very difficult to see help or to receive it. Yet we truly did love one another, and we did the best we could.

Which, ultimately and sadly, turned out not to be enough.

Writer. Runner. Marine. Airman. Former LGBTQ and HIV activist. Former ActUpNY and Queer Nation. Polyglot. Middle-aged, uppity faggot.

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