Mine too, Anna. I don’t want to automatically dismiss role playing and fetishes. I know they’re important to some people, and if it works for them, that’s fine by me.

I’ve never wanted to limit myself, though. Even as a gay man in a world where sexual roles are sort of presupposed, I don’t like to saddle myself with limitations.

I like to travel and explore the world. I’ve done a bit of that. I like to travel in relationships and love too, which to me is about being open to true connection and bonding.


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Writer. Runner. Marine. Airman. Former LGBTQ and HIV activist. Former ActUpNY and Queer Nation. Polyglot. Middle-aged, uppity faggot. jamesfinnwrites@gmail.com

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