I’ve often felt the same way, but I’ve been in situations where the person sitting beside me in the car was not the right person. And then I just get resentful.

It’s better to be (in my opinion) as fulfilled and happy as possible without a partner than miserable with a partner who’s only there because I was lonely and made a bad choice.

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Writer. Runner. Marine. Airman. Former LGBTQ and HIV activist. Former ActUpNY and Queer Nation. Polyglot. Middle-aged, uppity faggot. jamesfinnwrites@gmail.com

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