Is it possible that, internally, this really is in part a “moral thing?”

I mean, I realize your choice of words is intentional and thoughtful, but is it even possible to talk about being a “slut” without in some sense invoking moralism?

I know you’re hurting. You were treated badly, and you deserve better. Is there any possibility that in your pain you are returning to moralizing patterns of thought?

I don’t know, I’m not saying you are. Just throwing it out there and wishing you the very very best.