Indeed! My latest story is about how Prism & Pen got caught up in that paradox — on the Bluesky microblogging platform. Our storytelling was suppressed, criticized apparently because an innocent image was judged as sexualized or even pornographic for all I know. The homophobia inherent in that judgment is part of that denial of access you write about.
If our personal lives are considered "indecent," how can we possibly educate?