Indeed, as a gay man I knew this by the time I was in my mid-teens, because I had tried desperately…

The truth is, for most LGBTQ+ folks, their sexuality is as much a part of them as their eye color or their inexplicable love for cilantro. It’s not a phase, a trend, or a rebellion. It’s just who they are. And honestly, if someone could choose their sexuality, wouldn’t we all choo…
Why Are You Gay? A Straight Guy’s Quest for Answers
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James Finn
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Jan 31, 2025
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Indeed, as a gay man I knew this by the time I was in my mid-teens, because I had tried desperately to stop being gay. Not possible!
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Written by James Finn28K Followers
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James Finn is an LGBTQ columnist, a former Air Force intelligence analyst, an alumnus of Act Up NY, and an agented but unpublished novelist.
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