I’m sitting on the sidelines here being a gay man who doesn’t have a stake in participating in women’s orgasms.

But I’ll just throw this in for thought. Some of the most misogynistic, sexist, oppressive societies in the world conduct surgery on women to remove the possibility of their having an orgasm at all.


James Finn is a columnist for the LA Blade, a former Air Force intelligence analyst, an alumnus of Act Up NY, and an agented but unpublished novelist.

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