"I’m attempting to have productive dialogue."
That's a lie, and I am dead certain you know it's a lie. You lectured members of marginalized minorities about how our cultural practices are wrong and how we must change them.
Then you admitted you thought the whole thing was fodder for humor.
So get off the "productive dialogue" train. Seriously. That's bullshit and you know it.
Know how I feel about people who think my minority culture is funny? I hate those people with a fierce, burning, unrelenting passion. As I should.
You think we're funny? Ha! I'm sure used to that. It's typical bully behavior we LGBTQ people put up with every minute of our lives. And we're fucking sick of it. We WILL NOT BE the butt of your jokes.
You don't like our pronouns? Let's just go right back the beginning. Shut your mouth and show us respect anyway. Start now. Stop being a bully now.