I’d say if you don’t want to respect a fellow human being’s self identification, the only “bigoted moron” here is you. It takes nothing but a modicum of decency and respect to call a transgender woman she/her and a transgender man he/him. First-person I/me pronouns don’t do the job, which you must understand, so I wonder why you raise that point. But then your mindless hostility provides rather more than a tiny clue.