I wonder if something about the biological makeup of some gay men changes this. I identify powerfully with what you’re writing. I keep wanting to say, “Me too. That’s exactly how I feel.”

When my partners desire me powerfully and obviously, my own desire shoots through the roof. Conversely, the thought of intimacy with an apathetic partner really bores me.

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Writer. Runner. Marine. Airman. Former LGBTQ and HIV activist. Former ActUpNY and Queer Nation. Polyglot. Middle-aged, uppity faggot. jamesfinnwrites@gmail.com

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