Of course, men want to be wanted and desired as well, but their libido and sexual responsiveness does not seem to be tied to these feelings in the same way that women’s are. Let her know that you aren’t just hot and horny; you are hot and horny for her. Continue to woo her…
Elle Beau ❇︎
I wonder if something about the biological makeup of some gay men changes this. I identify powerfully with what you’re writing. I keep wanting to say, “Me too. That’s exactly how I feel.”
When my partners desire me powerfully and obviously, my own desire shoots through the roof. Conversely, the thought of intimacy with an apathetic partner really bores me.