I sure used to be a whore! I find that the place in life where I am right now, recreational sex bores me.

Never thought I’d say that!

Maybe my testosterone levels are falling off as I age. Honestly, though, I think it’s more just a matter of having “been there done that.”

I don’t get excited about window seats in airplanes anymore either. :-)

Not saying I’m not full of joie de vivre. I am. Just about different things than I used to be.

And sex is nice, but no longer very compelling.

I wondered about all this when I was young. About how I’d experience sex as an older man. It’s interesting to see how it plays out.

Jim

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Writer. Runner. Marine. Airman. Former LGBTQ and HIV activist. Former ActUpNY and Queer Nation. Polyglot. Middle-aged, uppity faggot. jamesfinnwrites@gmail.com

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