I hope you realize that you are incoherent and making no sense. Why would you think I find lectures about male self-control refreshing? What are you even talking about?

I made my initial point, and I was correct to make it. I observe something true and real. You can try to counter what I say by speaking incoherently and suggesting I shouldn't for some reason like flirting at gay bars, but your incoherence does not strengthen your point.