I have had a crush on Neil Gaiman for the longest time! I also find the people I might enjoy most as eye candy are seldom the people I end up feeling strongly attracted to.

None of my partners have ever been people I would have chosen strictly for their looks.

It’s one thing to enjoy looking at a beautiful body, but without the whole package? Well, sex can often be boring without a real human connection.

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Writer. Runner. Marine. Airman. Former LGBTQ and HIV activist. Former ActUpNY and Queer Nation. Polyglot. Middle-aged, uppity faggot. jamesfinnwrites@gmail.com

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