I get really tired of this in gay porn and gay written erotica too. This worship of the over-large phallus is boring with a capital B.

I can’t speak for everyone, but I’ve always enjoyed variety in my sex life, and I think I’m not so unusual. Like everyone, my sexual partners have run the gamut of penis size. Mathematically, I have obviously had more lovers with average size endowments than above average.

And speaking completely frankly, the number of inches they boasted while erect does not flavor my perception of their hotness or lack of hotness.

I like written gay erotica. I used to write it for pay once in awhile. Sometimes, I think I prefer it to visual porn. But when I get to a passage where a character starts boasting about his or his lover’s 9 or 10 inch cock, I can end up sighing in frustration.

I want written erotica to feel real and to be creative. I want to be surprised and caught up in unexpected erotic energy.

I’m not a ‘size queen.’ I’m not turned off by oversize penises, but I don’t have a fetish for them either. I’d appreciate a little more written porn that doesn’t presume that I am.

And I bet I’m not alone in that.