I find this subject difficult to talk about or write about, Elle. Both of the long-term relationships in my life were fairly open sexually. It suited us fine, and occasionally but not very often there was a ménage à trois (or quatre).

I don’t know whether it’s because I’m just innately a prude or because other people are, but I find discussing the realities openly are very difficult, even though all my experiences were quite positive.

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Writer. Runner. Marine. Airman. Former LGBTQ and HIV activist. Former ActUpNY and Queer Nation. Polyglot. Middle-aged, uppity faggot. jamesfinnwrites@gmail.com

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