James Finn
1 min readApr 16, 2019

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I fail to understand how you would think that observing that gay men have multidimensional personalities would imply that no other sorts of people do. In fact, I think I implied exactly the opposite, and fairly obviously.

You apparently are reading what I wrote with an agenda of your own — and assigning meaning that I neither penned nor think.

Your comments all but read as non-sequiturs given what I actually wrote and what I actually think.

What I meant by mental health is that when people say, “get a grip,” as you did, they usually mean to imply that their interlocutor is hysterical or in need of better mental health. Regardless, “get a grip” is not dialogue. It’s disrespect and ridicule.

If you want to comment about what I actually wrote or ask about what I actually meant, that’s fine. But if you continue in this vein, I’m not going to remove your comments and block you. I don’t have time for games.

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James Finn
James Finn

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James Finn is an LGBTQ columnist, a former Air Force intelligence analyst, an alumnus of Act Up NY, and an agented but unpublished novelist.

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