I can relate to so much of this! My own last girlfriend came a little earlier in life than yours did, but it feels so much the same.

The same Evangelical culture seemed to offer me a pass from physicality. Only she expected what everyone expected … that I would push against the “rules” and struggle with temptation.

Only I wasn’t tempted, and she could tell.

And so it goes …

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Writer. Runner. Marine. Airman. Former LGBTQ and HIV activist. Former ActUpNY and Queer Nation. Polyglot. Middle-aged, uppity faggot. jamesfinnwrites@gmail.com

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