I can assure you as a gay man that I am not the least bit confused and I never have been.
I can also ensure you that the entire tenor and tone of your comment is extraordinarily insulting.
You do not have the right to speculate about God’s purpose with respect to my sexual orientation or anyone else’s.
Speaking of privilege, the tone you are exercising in this comment, and the power that you demonstrate you wish to assert over others, is privilege incarnate.
You should examine yourself carefully, and stop making comments like this. You are not god, and you need to stop acting like you are or like you have a line to God.
It is comments like this that make LGBTQ people so enraged with Evangelical Christians.
If you can’t understand that, you should probably be quiet for a while until you are able to.