How discouraging that merely talking about your queerness in menopause support group brings out hostility and mistreatment. Social media is so like that right now in so many ways. I can't post a story on social media and use the tag #LGBTQ without having anti-trans people make hateful comments.

It doesn't matter that the article I posted isn't about or mostly isn't about trans people. People are going to run in circles, scream and shout.

I'm sorry this sort of attitude has made support so difficult for you to find!