Hi there, AstraSubDomina. Great rant. :-)
If you’re interested in a somewhat larger platform for this or other pieces, Th-Ink Queerly is a Medium publication that’s dedicated to magnifying the voices of LGBTQ people on Medium and sometimes providing a collaborative working space.
I’m the fiction editor there, so pieces like this would go through Darren Stehle rather than myself, but I can assure you that this is right up our alley.
Several trans women and trans men are active contributors at TQ, and we’re always looking for more personal perspectives like yours.