Um, what’s an “able bodied gaze?” I’m afraid that’s not ringing a bell with me.

I knew Larry and Jim for a number of years. I’ve moved four times since then. I wouldn’t know how to contact them anymore.

I told a story because I was there. I thought it was interesting.

I thought it raised interesting questions about power imbalance.

If you don’t think the questions are interesting, that’s OK.

It’s not required.


Writer. Runner. Marine. Airman. Former LGBTQ and HIV activist. Former ActUpNY and Queer Nation. Polyglot. Middle-aged, uppity faggot. jamesfinnwrites@gmail.com

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