Hell, Joe Duncan, as long as you and Emma Austin are gonna write about anal sex, I’ll throw my hat in the ring too. Oh, wait. I already did. ;-)

I think your points are well taken, and I agree that we need to stop sex shaming people. I write from the perspective of a gay man, but still … I’ve written frankly about anal sex and how it can be pleasurable, or not.

I have women friends who tell me they enjoy it, and when we’ve put our head together, lots of the reasons seem to be the same.


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