Funny how that works. Lots of us gay guys have to go through a similar process. We can grow up homophobic, and the homophobia doesn’t disappear on its own. One of my best friends ever, by the way, was a gay Vietnam vet who was huge in AA. I wrote about him not long ago.

Funny how Medium works. I wonder how I’ve not run into you writing before? Well, that’s fixed now!


Writer. Runner. Marine. Airman. Former LGBTQ and HIV activist. Former ActUpNY and Queer Nation. Polyglot. Middle-aged, uppity faggot.

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