For some reason, I'm thinking about Tom Cruise dancing in his underwear in Risky Business. I'm thinking about the "slutty woman" who asked him if he'd ever had sex on a real train.

I'm thinking that Cruise's character is celebrated for his healthy sexuality — and his expression of it — while a sophisticated, powerful woman who expressed her own sexuality came out looking unwholesome and wrong for him.

Nobody ever asked Tom Cruise to delete that dance, did they?