First of all, transsexual is an insulting word and you should never use it again except in a medical context. Second of all, homophobia has nothing to do with fear. It’s about bigotry and discrimination. I have no idea if people love you or not. I presume someone in your life must.
All I know is that last night you posted a horribly homophobic comment, and you have yet to apologize for it. you have yet to take any personal responsibility for your actions.
Trying to place the blame on me is classic, though, isn’t it?
Get back to me when you’re ready to apologize and take full responsibility for your homophobia.