As a gay man, if guys come onto me with dick pics or faceless photos of ripped chests, it’s a huge turn off.
It’s not that esthetically pleasing anatomy put me off; that’s always nice as part of a whole package.
But if he thinks he’s gonna interest me merely because of gross anatomy, I’m already not interested.
And you know what else? Guys like that often get offended when they’re turned down.
Which just makes me trust my initial judgement more!