As an aside, let it be noted that gay men often fall into the trap of treating other gay men by fuckability standards. "No fats, no femmes" is an old phrase seen today in dating apps that goes all the way back to personals print classifieds.

I'm not saying that men should not decide on sexual partners based on their personal attractions, but as any gay man could tell you, that sort of raw sentiment often doesn't stay in a dating lane.

Many gay men generalize the sentiment into broader areas of life. The fuckable are more valuable than the unfuckable.

This is a distressing part of our culture or perhaps the human condition. Thanks for helping demonstrate how that part of our culture can harm trans people.